Tym Stark’s Rehabilitation - Day 36
Day 36 - Saturday 10/27/07
Tym is now considered a “Phase 2″, as you can see from the pictures, that means he can be signed out by a family member and taken off-site for short outings. We couldn’t be more excited. Neither could Tym. We tried to surprise him and let him pick what he wanted to do or eat, but he’s so amenable that we ended up picking for him. We picked Red Robin, one of his previously favorite restaurants, but the location had been closed down. That’s why we were standing around at the mall. We ended up at Elephant Bar instead.
We had a great time out at dinner, and Tym enjoyed having real food, and getting out of the rehab institute. We had good conversations and a lot of laughs. Tym laughed so hard that his face was beet red, and he claimed his ribs were hurting (they were broken during CPR). He participated well in the conversations, and was very polite and well mannered at the dinner table. We asked him about where he planned on going for his post-acute care, and he said that he thinks Bakersfield is “too far” and he’d rather be in Orange County.
Tym did exhibit memory problems, which is normal. He continued to ask where his wallet was, and where his “new” truck was. He was however, very aware of his current situation and surroundings. We jokingly offered Tym the keys to drive home with, and he said, “No, I can’t drive. I’m not allowed to drive.” Also, when Tym’s brother Mitch was pulling out of the parking lot, Tym said “Be careful, there’s a guy on a bicycle. Don’t hit him.”
Tym later asked about his cellphone, and whether people were trying to reach him. I explained that everyone knows he’s in the rehab institute and that they are leaving messages for him on the website. He does read your messages, so please keep it up. You can address Tym directly if you want. Please keep the messages for Tym short and simple.
Reminder - If you plan to visit, please post a note here, and we will coordinate your request so as not to interfere with therapy, evaluations, and other visits.
October 28th, 2007 at 3:02 pm
Glad to hear he got a chance at some real food. Before we moved to Florida, we enjoyed eating at the Elephant Bar & Grill too. Not only is the food good, but it’s fun sitting outdoors and watching the planes come in an out. Happy to hear things are going so well. Tym and all of you remain in our thoughts and prayers.
October 28th, 2007 at 5:58 pm
Tym, you look great! The pictures are beautiful of you and your family. I’m sure you are recovering at the rate you are, because you are surrounded by so much love. I’d like to come visit you on Monday, November 5th, if possible. Afternoon would be great, but I can do evening too. Let me know if that will work with your schedule.
Love, Diana
October 28th, 2007 at 6:33 pm
Dear cousinTym,
Rob and I have been following your progress. I am glad you finally got some good food.
We know you will like the new place in LA. It will be nice to be close to Jeremy.
Please know that we are sending our love and prayers.
Your cousin,
Amy
October 28th, 2007 at 9:59 pm
Dear Tym,
You look great. We have been reading about you and will visit as soon as we all can get our schedules straight. Natalie and Gabby have started school again. We are always thinking about you.
With Love,
Nathan , Red, Natalie, and Gabby
October 29th, 2007 at 7:26 am
Hi Tym,
Glad to hear you’re healing nicely.
Hugs and blessings
Pat
October 29th, 2007 at 1:26 pm
Hi Tym,
I’m so happy to read you are doing better every day!
You continue to be in my prayers.
Lori
October 29th, 2007 at 1:44 pm
Hello Tym,
It is wonderful to see you out and about! The pictures are great too. I think you really look very well. Alan and I keep prayers in our hearts for YOU!!!
It has been such an honor to pray for you, on Wednesdays with FBF friends.
God is using this situation for good, and so many are touched. We are claiming complete healing for you.
Blessings and Our Love Each Day,
Sandy and Alan Jacobson xoxoxoxoxo
October 29th, 2007 at 2:25 pm
Hi Tym,
I am really excited about your progress. Keep up the great work with your therapy. Glad to see that you were able to get our with family for a while. I don’t know if I will be able to get down to see you again before you move down south or not. Just know that I and the your group continue to pray for your rapid recovery.
I got back from attending the first Fall Men’s Conference at Hume Lake yesterday (Sunday). Speakers were Stu Weber, Ken Hutcherson and Steve Farrar. It was a great 4 days. It’s definitely something to consider attending next Fall. The main speaker next year will be Tony Evans.
Keep you eyes focus on God brother.
Tom Gilbert
October 29th, 2007 at 4:02 pm
Hey, Tym!
Just cheering you on!
God Bless your week!
Carolyn
October 29th, 2007 at 5:59 pm
Hello Tym,
I wrote awhile back and said I would like to send you a jersey from the Lompoc Valley Distance Club half-marathon that you ran in. You didn’t get to pick up your shirt and I would love to bring it down to you and meet you. I was one of the volunteers that helped organize the race. I would like to come this Friday , November 2nd if that can be made to work. Let me know.
Harvey Wynne - Lompoc -
October 29th, 2007 at 9:51 pm
Hi Tym,
Martin here, AKA Marty to the Stark family
I’ve been following your progress and praying for a swift recovery. You’ve been doing great from what I read on the posting and am thankful that you have such an incredible family pulling for you, both your immediate family and your Church family. Keep up the good spirits!
Have a great, healthy week Tym!
Martin
October 30th, 2007 at 8:30 am
Tym,
How wonderful you got to break out for a little while. Love those smiles on everyone’s faces. Keep up the progress and remember….God is in control.
Hugs to you!
Pam
November 1st, 2007 at 11:43 am
Hi Tym
It’s great to read and see you doing so well with your recovery. Keep up the good work and in time all will be well.
Take Care and All The Best Always
Jim
November 28th, 2007 at 7:26 pm
Tym,
Hoping to see you soon. Waiting to hear when would be a good time to come. Please let me know, I can come Thursday or Friday after 6:00. Please let me know when the best time would be.
Amy